The appropriate time
I recently went to Olive Garden for a second date. The guy and I talked about a lot of things over dinner, including sex. He spent a good 30 to 45 minutes on how he didn’t think you had to wait a certain time before becoming intimate. Even throwing in a story about how he and a woman, he slept with on the first night, were together for 10 months.
After dinner, he tried several times to have sex with me (surprise, surprise), in such a way I didn’t demand to go home (yeah, he was good). However, we didn’t do anything sexual.
The next day he called, telling me how he really could see himself in a serious relationship with me. And the night before had been a test (that phone call ended with a great degree of hostility on both ends).
Do you think one should be in a relationship for X amount of days, weeks, or months before becoming intimate?
Regardless of whether your body wants to do it sooner?
If so, why?